Free ebook download: Stretching your Dollar$ and $ense

Hi everybody!

The Covid-19 virus is affecting everyone in one way or another. In Malaysia, thousands of people are infected, and the numbers keep rising everyday. At the time of writing, 10 people have lost their lives here, and sadly more will in time to come. Our medical frontliners are overworked and weary, the janitors, delivery people, food suppliers and vendors, and other essential service providers are bravely battling the grave situation.

The financial repercussions are tremendous for everyone. Our earnings will take a dip; maybe some of us will lose our jobs. We have to be careful with our spending and try to stretch out our ringgit as much as we can and brace ourselves against the uncertain future.

In 2009, Marshall Cavendish published my book, Stretching Your Dollars and Sense - More than 300 money-saving tips for anyone and everyone. It didn't do well, and since then MC has returned the rights to me. So I am free to do what I want with the book. This title didn't earn me much royalties, but if it can now help people to save some $$ in this challenging times, I'd be thrilled.



To do my part for society while staying-at-home, I am offering readers a FREE download of the book. I hope that you will be able to learn some tips on how to stretch your ringgit. No strings attached. The only caveat is that you don't sell this book anywhere. This offer is only up to 31 March 2020 i.e. the last day of our Movement Control Order (MCO), but I may extend the deadline depending on the situation.

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Happy reading and happy saving.

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Cow Sense for Parents

I am so happy and honoured to get endorsement for this book from a trio of parenting experts. Their blurbs are printed on the back cover of the book, but I am reproducing them here so that everyone can read them clearly.

"A refreshing personal reflection on parenting, this book is full of common-sense practical ideas and advice. It applies to parents of all ages and is also educational for children who wish to understand parenting. Perhaps the most overarching message this book asserts is the importance of deliberate and consistent parenting and parents' abilities to introspect honestly. This is a good book for both headstart and continuing parenting."

- Paul K. Jambunathan (Paul J)
Consultant Clinical Psychologist. Senior Lecturer, Jeffrey Cheap School of Medicine and Health Sciences, Monash University, Malaysia.

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Cow Sense for Parents is a mooving experience, even for a Psychologist like myself. With all that I’ve been trained in, having a toddler can still drive me up the pastures. I’m glad for Lydia’s book that provides down-to-earth practical tips for parents that discuss both the developmental needs of the child as well as of the parent. Cow sense is a book all parents can chew on. I know I'm milking the most from it.

~ Dr Brendan J Gomez, Applied Developmental and Counseling Psychologist
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"An engaging read. Lydia draws in the reader with characteristic humour."

- Jamilah Samian, author, www.coolmumsuperdad.com

This book is a compilation of my newspaper column in The Sun, Family Teh Time, which ran for five years. If the response is good, then maybe I will compile the second volume.

Review - How I Wrote Ten Books

13 January 2018
By Ruxyn Tang

Since we're still in the new year mood, I figured that it might be good that I start the first post of the year with this entry. If it is one of your resolutions this year to read more books, or even write more, then perhaps this is quite fitting.


Lydia Teh's 'How I Wrote Ten Books' (HIWTB) is a lot about her own journey as an author. I think in many aspects, the books is a memoir on its own as Teh breaks down systematically the processes involved. From identifying her readers to marketing campaigns, she goes step-by-step into her concerns and her triumphs; all in relation to her writing and getting her books published.

It's very easy to read - I finished in just a couple of hours. To a certain extent, the book can be a little disjointed but I like that it's organised this way because that means I could read it in parts.

As always, Teh is true to herself and I've liked her books because they're always very witty and honest. Teh's not afraid to disclose her past mistakes and she'd even go into details on things like why some books work and some don't - things perhaps most of us would find embarrassing to admit.

Some may pick up such a book expecting to finish it knowing what to do and how to do it - there are plenty of examples from Teh here. Teh has a lot of insights on her journey, like what worked for her and what didn't, so pick up those that might be relevant to you. One of the things that stood out for me is that Teh's story reminded me a lot about the power of networking.

I personally don't find HIWTB as a cheerleader-style kind of writing to inspire you to write and get published. It's a lot more than Teh sharing what is the art of good writing, or the craft. Rather, there are little nuggets waiting to be found within the book, like what was going on behind the scenes in the industry and the various aspects of book promotion, especially in local context. I think these are extremely valuable advice, given that Teh is of one of the most famous Malaysian authors in the 21st century.

My favourite line from the book: "Here's another universal truth: writing is recycling." As someone who writes almost everyday, I can resonate. Of course, there's a full context to this, go grab the book and read it. ;)

You can purchase How I Wrote Ten Books online here from MPH.

PS: Huge thanks to Lydia Teh for sending a copy for the review. I enjoyed it thoroughly!

Source : www.ruxyn.com

Scoring a Perfect Ten

The Sun, 27 October 2017

MOTHER, writer and columnist Lydia Teh is one of the more prolific authors in this country.

To date, she has written 10 books, including the recently– published How I Wrote Ten Books (now available at MPH and all major bookstores at RM29.90).

Her latest book, which revisits all her past nine efforts, contains many interesting ancedotes and tips for those interested in writing and getting published.

During an interview at the book launch, which also doubled as Teh’s birthday party (she turned 55 on Oct 5), we talked about her new book and her literary journey.

On why she wrote 10 books, Teh explained: “Actually, MPH has this series called How I Did It [where] the editor gets a few authors to write about how they started their business.

“In my case, I was asked to write about how I wrote my first book. I felt I did not have enough material for that. Since I had written so many books, I decided I should write about all my books for an in–depth journey about my writing.”

Teh wrote her very first book at the age of 39, when she was pregnant with her fourth child.

“I was a homemaker for 17 years. When I was in school, my teachers used to read out my English essays. English was my favourite and best subject. I did not have to study and I would score in it.”

Teh, who also runs a franchised English–language centre and has ventured into language training as well, shared that she always harboured a desire to write.

“When I [was working] as a secretary and then stayed home to take care of the children, I decided to take up a correspondence course.

“I told myself that I must write a book before I reach 40. I set my deadline.”

So when she was pregnant with her daughter at 39, she decided to write her first book.

“I had won many writing competitions and my first book was on how to win competitions.”

The book, Congratulations! You Have Won!: A Guidebook on How to Maximise your Chances of Winning Competitions, was published in 2001. It did not sell well, but it was a start.

It was her Honk! If You’re Malaysian book, published in 2007, that put her on the best–selling list.
When asked if she ever wanted to try her hand at fiction, Teh said she would have loved to but it was not her cup of tea.

As to the most valuable lesson she wishes to impart to her readers in How I Wrote Ten Books, Teh said: “I think my book will appeal to those who want to write. Those people who want to see the actual journey of a writer.”

Teh said when she started to write, she read up on plenty of books and articles on how to write. “I didn’t have any mentor. I learned everything through trial and error.”

Teh is a big fan of author Amy Tan (Joy Luck Club) and local writer Adibah Amin who had a column in a local newspaper Teh used to enjoy reading in her teens.

“In fact, Adibah wrote the foreword for my book, Honk If You’re Malaysian. That is my best–selling book to date.”
Teh had written different types of books throughout her literary career, including her own columns.

“When you write a column, it keeps you on your toes,” she said. “You can’t write unless the inspiration hits you. You really need to have the discipline, sit down and give yourself a deadline.”

Teh applied the same principle to all the books she has written. Even after 10 books, Teh doesn’t see herself as having arrived as a writer. She still wants to write more books as well as try her hand at writing fiction.

“Writing is a passion for me,” says the mother of four.

Her next plan is to compile all the articles that she’s written for theSun’s Family Ties column, as well as the more devotional type of articles she had previously written for her church bulletin.

Columbia Asia Hospital Diabetes Week 2016

Was honoured to be invited as a judge for Columbia Asia Hospital's storytelling competition, "My Life as a Diabetic Child." The children's stories were very inspiring and touching.

Her World February 2016

The Star, Sat 5 December 2015

CHILDREN with diabetes were given a chance to tell their stories to the world in an event organised by Columbia Asia Hospital.

The event, “My Life as a Diabetic Child”, was the hospital’s latest initiative to celebrate the lives of diabetic children.

It also marked the end of a series of events held in conjunction with World Diabetes Awareness Month and in collaboration with Diabetes Malaysia.

Children aged under 16 with Type 1 diabetes wrote about their life experiences either in a poem or story format.

Type 1 diabetes is one of the most misunderstood diseases because it is quite rare and does not have obvious physical symptoms.

The relatively low awareness on this type of diabetes also means there are many misconceptions.

“Columbia Asia’s commitment goes beyond treating the disease.

“A platform like this gives children with Type 1 diabetes an avenue to open up and share their world with us,” said Columbia Asia South-East Asia chief executive officer Kelvin Tan.

“Their stories will not only give the world a glimpse into the challenges they face, we hope it will also help the community understand them and their condition betterd.

The event was held at Sprouts, The School in Jaya One, Petaling Jaya.

“It was indeed a pleasure for us to host this inspirational event,” said its owner Charles Wong.

Local writers namely ninotaziz who penned Hikayat, Naga and Nik and the Secrets of the Sunset Ship; and Lydia Teh of Honk! If You’re Malaysian and Cow Sense for Young People also joined in the storytelling activities.

Nine-year-old Channery Khaw Ming Hern’s story was found to be the “Most Motivating” and was awarded RM6,000.

A story by Nor Athirah Nor Hisham, 12, was deemed the “Most Inspiring” story and she received RM4,000 while Chermaine Toh Xin Yee, 9, won the “Most Heartwarming” award for her piece and received RM2,000.

The other seven children were recognised as “heroes” and awarded RM1,000.

The children’s parents were also present to support them on their storytelling journey.

“I’m very proud of my daughter for being brave in sharing her story,” said Nor Hisham Mohd Yusof, who said his daughter, Nur Athirah, scored 5As in the recent UPSR.

A cheque for RM30,000 from funds raised by Columbia Asia during World Diabetes Awareness Month was also presented to Diabetes Malaysia.

Besides the storytelling celebration, Columbia Asia supported a Master Chef Challenge which took place in early November which saw chefs coming up with diabetic-friendly recipes.

Review - Cow Sense for Young People

10 December 2015
By Ruxyn Tang

I buy dozens of books every year but I'm guilty because I probably only read half of them most of the time. Although I love reading, I've never written a book review. So here's my first attempt, and this is for Lydia Teh's latest book, 'Cow Sense for Young People'.

'Cow Sense for Young People' is the author's 9th book, a compilation of articles first published in The Sun. The book is structured in a series of frequently asked questions (FAQ) format.

Frankly, I personally feel that humor is always a hit and miss thing but one thing's for sure, Lydia Teh is one witty writer. The book is perfect for light reading, and the style of writing (plus the usage of Manglish) makes this book not just relatable but also enjoyable and easy to read. Though it is difficult for me to say that it's the kind of book that I will pack inside a bag and bring with for an adventure, I do see myself picking up the book and re-reading it over and over again for leisure.

On surface, people may quickly dismiss it as a book under the 'Funny' genre, but really it's a self-development book that offers nuggets of wisdom and plenty useful advice for youngsters. I can foresee that some may not completely agree with the author on certain points, but I believe they are great food for thought.

On another note, I am pleased to find lots of reference to pop icons such as Adele, Simon Cowell and even Youtube personality, Ryan Higa. These names should resonate with the ordinary youth and young adult.

Perhaps I'm nitpicking but I think it's crucial to mention the following since the book is targeted at young people (though it's also obvious that adults may also enjoy this book). There's a reference in the book to Finding Nemo's Dory but the name was referenced as 'Dora'. So yes, the popular fish is Dory, not Dora (The Explorer). I do think that young people would have spotted this mistake since Finding Nemo is extremely popular - one of the highest grossing animated film of all time and is the best selling DVD of all time. And personal pet peeve, Nicol David was spelled as Nicole David.

Favourite line from the book: Once you’ve decided that happiness is a choice, it is easier to align your attitude to make happiness a reality.

In essence, 'Cow Sense for Young People' appears to be a book of answers to questions that I may not have even thought about before, and it's a great read. There's nothing really controversial except perhaps (it's arguable) that the author often offers a conventional worldview of things which the modern youth may cease to agree.

Finally, sit back and relax as you read on as Lydia Teh is going to give you an entertaining look at the world of young people who wonders about the practicalities of life.

Source: www.ruxyn.com

Review of Still Honking in The Expat - March 2015

Review of Stretching your dollars and sense by Liv&Luv

Review by Liv & Luv Blog
3 February 2015

Those who lived through the Japanese Occupation of our country know what it’s like to live frugally. I remember my grandmother (whom we fondly called Opah) telling us that she ensured her children would never go hungry by living well within her means.

Although my grandmother has passed on since, her words of wisdom stayed with me. So imagine my delight when I came across some of Opah’s tried-and-tested money-saving tips when I was reading this book.

Lydia Teh is a renowned Malaysian author and newspaper columnist who has seven other books to her name including the best-selling Honk! If You’re Malaysian. She is also a mother of four children.

As stated on its cover, the book contains more than 300 money-saving tips for anyone and everyone. In today’s tough economic climate, it pays to be prudent and there is no better way than to trim down your expenses. This book will help you do just that. It is chock-full of sensible money-saving suggestions that you can immediately apply in many areas of your life.

The tips are compiled into 11 Chapters entitled: Tightening the Belt, Super Shopper Savers, Prudent Household Tips, Utility Savings, Grooming for Less, Money Matters Most, Paying Less Tax is a Relief, Thrifty Transport Tips, Savings on Special Occasions, Leisure on a Budget and Miscellaneous and More Savings.

Every chapter consists of more than 10 tips and each tip is explained adequately. Whether you are a home-maker, a student, a salary earner or a business owner, the book covers a wide range of money-saving ideas which can easily be put into practice. The book ends with a few pages of lovely Quotations on Frugality and Simple Living and there is also a Glossary of words which is helpful to a non-Malaysian reader.

Let me assure you that this book is not telling you to stop spending completely. The writer emphasizes this in her introduction and recommends that what we should do instead is to make smarter choices and manage our finances better. I could not agree more.

Something that lends a very special touch to this book is how the writer has shared her experiences in using the tips herself. She is neither shy nor afraid of giving readers a glimpse into her personality. Some examples include the time she bought a denim jacket with two missing buttons because it was on discount and how she is known as the ‘leftover’ queen in her family.

It is also important to be aware that not every tip in this book is acceptable to everyone but those are few and far between. For instance, some readers may disagree with the writer on the tip about movie squatters. Instead of buying a ticket, you get your young child to share your seat with you or let the child sit on the stairs if you have an aisle seat. The downside to this is that the child may throw a tantrum when he or she becomes uncomfortable and this will consequently reduce the movie-watching experience for yourself and other paying patrons.

The writer acknowledges that she does not expect all the tips in this book to be used. However, given that there are more than 300 tips available, there is a wide variety for you to choose from.

I would recommend this book to anyone who is looking for various ways to save money in his or her daily life. It can also be a nice gift for a friend or relative whom you think may appreciate some help in getting their expenses under control.

Still Honking in Her World

Her World, November 2014

It's been seven years since Lydia Teh first published Honk! If You're Malaysian and she is now back with a much-anticipated new book Still Honking - More Scenes from Malaysian Life.


The humourous and witty book captures the essence of what it feels like to be a Malaysian. If you're in need of a pick-me-up, look no further. Let Lydia entertain you with funny and hilarious characters and situations that all of us are familiar with. After all, there's nothing more joyous than reading about your own culture.